The Perfect Gift

Giving gifts to certain people is our expression of love and appreciation. It’s a common tradition for every birthday or for any moment we would love to celebrate. But the most awaited gifts are the ones given this Christmas season that brings out that youthful excitement of the people from any part of the world.

But how do we know that the gift we’ve chosen is the right one or is even the perfect choice? Does the most expensive option truly show our gratitude for that person or does the less expensive option become too shallow and simple for them to accept?

The process of choosing a gift isn’t as easy as what we would expect because a lot of us takes a long time to decide what’s the best gift. Due to the rush and pressure, we sometimes tend to forget what this time of the year is all about—love, reverence, gratefulness and generosity—where our gift may show how we cherish and view that relationship.

For instance, imagine giving your long-time friend the most expensive piece of clothing you could find. Later, you notice a disappointed look on their face—not because of the price, but because it wasn’t really their style. It subtly suggests they felt you didn’t truly understand their tastes after all. The item they’ve received doesn’t really express the gratitude or the kind of love we had after long years of friendship, not considering their own preferences and dislikes.

In a captivating contrast to another tale, Jeremy from the cartoon Phineas and Ferb once yearned to gift a necklace that the woman he admired kept eyeing every time they passed by a quaint shop. However, the price surpassed what he pocketed, and unexpectedly, his beloved guitar became the solution—so much so that he willingly parted with it. Remarkably, he discovered that Candace, his girlfriend, had also sold her treasured necklace for a similar opportunity: a guitar that caught her eye. This exchange drew them closer than ever, showcasing their readiness to sacrifice anything to see each other happy.

Yet, there’s a different kind of joy—one found in simple gestures. A heartfelt letter expressing appreciation and gratitude for someone’s presence in our lives can brighten their day. A smile can also be sparked by a small, thoughtful gift, like hairpins bought for just 50 pesos—especially if they’re avid collectors. Even modest presents, such as a coffee mug that proclaims ‘World’s Greatest Dad,’ from a nearby store, can hold immense sentimental value and make the holiday truly special for a loved one.

So, what’s the takeaway from all this? Whether you spend a fortune or just a little, the spirit of giving isn’t about the price tag. It’s about making the recipient feel truly valued and understood—regardless of who it’s from, where it’s from, or how much it cost.

Ultimately, the true essence of the season lies in the effort, thoughtfulness, and time invested in choosing each gift. Every item carries meaning that fosters stronger bonds, more love, and happiness. After all, isn’t the greatest gift seeing someone’s face light up with joy because they received something meaningful during this magical time of year?

Article by Princess Adona